Saṁyutta Nikāya 17.21 3. Tatiyavagga Mātugāmasutta

Sāvatthiyaṁ viharati.

At Sāvatthī.

“Dāruṇo, bhikkhave, lābhasakkārasiloko …pe…

“Possessions, honor, and popularity are grim …

na tassa, bhikkhave, mātugāmo eko ekassa cittaṁ pariyādāya tiṭṭhati yassa lābhasakkārasiloko cittaṁ pariyādāya tiṭṭhati.

Even if you’re alone with a lady she might not occupy your mind, but possessions, honor and popularity would still occupy your mind.

Evaṁ dāruṇo kho, bhikkhave, lābhasakkārasiloko …pe…

So grim are possessions, honor, and popularity. …”

evañhi vo, bhikkhave, sikkhitabban”ti.

Paṭhamaṁ.